Learn How To Say No
Many a time we find ourselves caught up in a mix of emotions and we are busy doing things that we do not want to do. The reason for all this is simply because we are unable to say no. There are so many people out there who when asked to do a task, agree, not because they want to, but because they can’t say no. That is why today we give you a few basic tips that will help you to learn how to say no.
How To Learn To Say No
How To Say No
- Keep It Simple: Don’t go about the bush when you are trying to say no. remember there is no need to apologize for saying no because if you don’t want to do you don’t and you don’t a reason for it.
- Give Yourself Time: If you are a bit too shy to say No at that exact moment, simply try phrases like “I’ll get to You” these will give you time to gain your confidence.
- Try A Compromise: Try to work out something that can work out for the both of you, that is if you want to do the task at the end of the day. But if you don’t simply suggest someone else who may be able to do it.
- It’s a Refusal Not A Rejection: Always bear in mind that just as someone has the right to ask you for something, you also have the right to say no as well.
- Don’t Feel Guilty: There is no crime associated with saying No. It is something that you can do if you want to, even if to your boss or it’s to your children.
- Be True To Yourself: Lastly, in order to learn how to say no, you will need to be true to yourself. If you really don’t want to whatever you have been asked to do, simply say so. Don’t push yourself to the limit trying to please everyone.
